<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post6998770023989577800..comments</id><updated>2007-07-04T07:46:09.198-05:00</updated><category term='Reviews'/><category term='GIVEAWAYS'/><category term='Guest Writer'/><category term='resolutions'/><category term='Budget'/><category term='SPONSORED POST'/><category term='Love and Marriage'/><category term='Finance Gurus'/><category term='award'/><category term='Goals'/><category term='Retirement'/><category term='Foster Parents'/><category term='Freebies'/><category term='Investments'/><category term='Frugal'/><category term='Financial'/><category term='Household Tips'/><category term='Coupons'/><category term='Career'/><category term='Blog-aversary'/><category term='Readers Ask'/><category term='Recepies'/><category term='Wisdom Moment'/><category term='Super Rich'/><category term='Holiday&apos;s'/><category term='News'/><title type='text'>Comments on Wisdom Steps 101 ... Be Weird...Be Debt Free: Time to Come Clean &amp; Be Honest about My Stupidity</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/feeds/6998770023989577800/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html'/><author><name>Kevin Surbaugh</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/114850083782944258911</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh4.googleusercontent.com/-USbD7QyOHvc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/AgFV9_HB-LE/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-3238845426659775477</id><published>2007-07-04T07:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-07-04T07:46:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I really think the only way you are realistically ...</title><content type='html'>I really think the only way you are realistically going to pay off your debt is to either pick up a second job and put that money toward the debt. Or, go back to school, earn a degree and move up at your present company.  At least with a degree you have a chance at a higher paying job.  You will be working the next 30 or so years, you may as well make them count with higher pay, better benefits and a better sense of well-being.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/3238845426659775477'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/3238845426659775477'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183553160000#c3238845426659775477' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1393251454'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-4443344315901899318</id><published>2007-07-02T22:08:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-07-02T22:08:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>HMMM COULD THIS BE THE REASON YOU NEED A BLOG TO S...</title><content type='html'>HMMM COULD THIS BE THE REASON YOU NEED A BLOG TO STAY DEBT FREE ??? WHAT WERE YOU THINKING ???????&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I HOPE YOU LEARNED YOUR LESSON... NEXT TIME YOU DECIDE TO BUY CRAP ON TV AT 4:00 GOOGLE THE WORDS, DO A LITTLE RESEARCH!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/4443344315901899318'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/4443344315901899318'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183432080000#c4443344315901899318' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-721261919'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-7203487861510712742</id><published>2007-06-30T23:50:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-30T23:50:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hopefully your debit card has either a MasterCard ...</title><content type='html'>Hopefully your debit card has either a MasterCard or Visa symbol on it.  If so, you can definitely dispute the charges and have them refunded.  Credit card companies protect you from this sort of thing, that's why I always use credit when shopping online or to purchase big-ticket items.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Even if your debit card doesn't have a credit card symbol on it, you can still dispute it with your bank.  The process is a little more involved, but totally worth it.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Once you get the money refunded, you should be able to argue about the fees from your other accounts.  I just went through a similar situation last month with one credit card.  If you say it was due to fraud, they'll remove the overdraft fee immediately.  Good luck!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/7203487861510712742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/7203487861510712742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183265400000#c7203487861510712742' title=''/><author><name>Blogletting.com</name><uri>http://blogletting.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-870675537'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-2624852275369281620</id><published>2007-06-30T10:14:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-30T10:14:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is serious! This company does not have  integ...</title><content type='html'>This is serious! This company does not have  integrity.  I would end my relationship with them in a hurry.  You can't trust them.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I would have a face-to-face, short meeting with my checking account banker person.  If you haven't already done this; I would ask for grace and ask if they could revove some of these overpayment penalties.  I would definitely explain that this internet company of ill repute fraudulently withdrew the $275.   My experience with bank penaties, is that they will listen and remove some of them.   &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The problem is, you are $626 short and counting.  Can you cover this with $708 in emergency/ins fund?  Could you use the new car fund?  Or do you have an asset like a stock you could cash in,in the long-term to cover your liabilities? These are the options I see you have available.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I dont have an answer on raising 5 million dollars capital for this particular internet business venture.   &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;If you are interested in learning more on business plans, I can pass along a few ideas I discovered.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Topeka Public Library offers a series of three courses&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;RESEARCHING THE BUSINESS PLAN &lt;BR/&gt;jul 12 (6-8:30) presented by washburn small business develeopment center $30 for print materials&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;SMALL BUSINESS ORIENTATION&lt;BR/&gt;jul 17 (6-7:30) free&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;LEGAL PLANNING &amp; REGISTRATION FOR THE SMALL BUSINESS&lt;BR/&gt;jul 26 (6-8:30) free &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;in addition&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;here are free resources on the internet&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;www.candabusiness.ca/ibp/  (free interactive business plan; this is a step-by-step)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;www.sba.gov/smallbusinessplaner/index.html   (very informative step-by-step fill in the blank, also includes free advice from retired expert MENTOR in the business you are studying)  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;www.myphliputil.pearson.cmg.com/student/bp_turban_introec_1/Rescources.html     (top ten rescources for writing an e-business plan)  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;ok, happy trails</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/2624852275369281620'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/2624852275369281620'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183216440000#c2624852275369281620' title=''/><author><name>Sean Thornton</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1081480993'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-2130620332688794296</id><published>2007-06-30T07:12:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-30T07:12:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is bad, I would recommend removing as much em...</title><content type='html'>This is bad, I would recommend removing as much emotion and coloring to your words as you can.  Then re-write the response.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I would also, give all the information to my bank and find out what recourse there may be.  The bank people are generally in the know, for dealing with crooks.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I would also cancel the service (first).  When asked why I would simply say "I am not in the market to business with people or businesses that are not on the same moral level as myself."&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You do have rights - use them.  No emotion, or little emotion.  Time to put logic in the front.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I also recommend buying a book.  You should not take on any more debts.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/2130620332688794296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/2130620332688794296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183205520000#c2130620332688794296' title=''/><author><name>D</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13253101883627114010</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-274171320'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-8748523657460116783</id><published>2007-06-30T03:02:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-30T03:02:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>ouch. you've run into some creeps. some creeps rec...</title><content type='html'>ouch. you've run into some creeps. some creeps recently got me for $400 on a rental car. i didn't have a CREDIT CARD at the airport and so they wouldn't rent to me... but they'll keep the money! i disputed it and they found some small print. well there it was in small print. avoid any more overdraft fees, even if it means going into debt. take your lumps and get away from these people. they are in the business of tricking and pressuring and fighting. they will do it all day long. that's how they make money.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/8748523657460116783'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/8748523657460116783'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183190520000#c8748523657460116783' title=''/><author><name>JohnDiddler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05790137091661859754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2136609665'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-20502878618309600</id><published>2007-06-29T14:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-29T14:55:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>In my opinion - until you start to live your life ...</title><content type='html'>In my opinion - until you start to live your life without incurring any more debt each and every day - day after day - ANY money you spend on how to do it is a waste of your money. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I believe you can achieve your goal. If you want to do it. You are however, so many years away from understanding just what it will take to pull your goal off - you'll have changed your mind by then.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The commenter suggesting the $20 books is right. You can get a free e-book copy of mine at http://www.nobalancedue.com if you like.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You CAN do it. It's going to take a lot of determination to pull it off my friend.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Lenny Tumbarello</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/20502878618309600'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/20502878618309600'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183146900000#c20502878618309600' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-79881840'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6747230996135409009</id><published>2007-06-29T09:38:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-29T09:38:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>First, while you may be able to get this company t...</title><content type='html'>First, while you may be able to get this company to refund the lump-sum payment they deducted, I'd be amazed if they were willing to cover the bank fees you're asking for. Clearly, customer service is not something they care about.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Secondly, $440 ($39.95 for 11 months) is an outrageous price to pay for the kind of guidance you're looking for. There are plenty of good $20 books out there to show you how to do a business plan. The SBA provides counseling. You could probably have found most of the info you needed at the library, but even paying an attorney to get you going on the plan would have been preferrable and probably cheaper than this. You were scammed right from the get-go.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Lastly, I agree with the previous commenter that you're not currently in good financial shape to tackle this goal. Starting a business requiring this kind of capital is a huge undertaking and to take it on while you're still trying to dig out from debt is too much. And honestly, if you had a million dollars to invest, would you give it to someone who was living this close to the financial edge?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I suggest that you move this dream to the back burner while you get your financial life in order. You can use that time to plan and do research. Then when the time is right, you'll be ready.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/6747230996135409009'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/6747230996135409009'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183127880000#c6747230996135409009' title=''/><author><name>Nine Circles</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11050247144603076063</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-104420037'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-1382663755008062635</id><published>2007-06-29T08:24:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-06-29T08:24:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Someone whose finances are stretched by an unexpec...</title><content type='html'>Someone whose finances are stretched by an unexpected charge of just a few hundred dollars expects to borrow MILLIONS to start up a 2-3 store business?? You're dreaming!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/1382663755008062635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/6998770023989577800/comments/default/1382663755008062635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html?showComment=1183123440000#c1382663755008062635' title=''/><author><name>enoughwealth@yahoo.com</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09371028394685288035</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='20' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/4413/3388/1600/Morgan%20Device.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.wisdomsteps101.com/2007/06/time-to-come-clean-be-honest-about-my.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24744976.post-6998770023989577800' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/24744976/posts/default/6998770023989577800' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-870387108'/></entry></feed>
